Begin with the End in Mind

Habit 2: Begin with the End in Mind

The principle behind this habit is that mental creation precedes physical creation. That is easy enough to understand, we think of something and then we create. My entire life excluding the last four or five years, I never thought of myself as creative. I couldn't draw. I don't sing (in public, anyway). I just didn't make things. I organized things other people made.

This changed one random night when I had an idea to paint flowers. Over a couple of days, I mentally went though all of the processes that it would take to create these flowers. So one night around 6pm, I said to Wes, "hey, you wanna go to Micheal's with me and get some paint and canvas?" He was like, "ummm.... What?"

I knew exactly what I wanted those flowers to look like and in the end they did. Regardless of the fact, that I knew no, none, nada single painting technique.

All of that to say, that most of the things we do we naturally begin with the end in mind. However, our ends may not always end the way we planned.
This quote comes to mind."Cleaning the house with kids in the house is like shoveling snow while it is still snowing."

During our 7 habits training, beginning with the end in mind took on a different meaning. My paradigm shifted, if you will. I wasn't just thinking about boiling noodles because I wanted to eat pasta or planning a lesson because I wanted to teach genres. I began to think about what I coined "the big end", the later years (the end) of my life.

That day we were asked to write a personal mission statement. We were instructed to just write without stopping. The following is what I wrote that day.


Disclaimer: I am not writing this because I want others to share (unless they so choose). This is My blog and the diary of My life. I want to share this for my memory, if it inspires someone, that is just a plus. Please just take it for a written work and nothing more.



When we begin with the end in mind, our journey may change along the way, our ending may look completely different from the end we had in mind for our lives. But beginning with the end in mind at least provides us with a compass a direction so that we are traveling somewhere, going in some direction, not aimlessly, but purposely moving from from small end to another so that the "big end" means something. Thus poses the question, how we will begin to live, today with the "big end" in mind? What do I believe? What moves me? What influences my decisions? Who will I impact? Who will impact me? Why?

I believe in love of all kinds. The love of a hobby, the love of tasting a delicious desert, the love of a pet, the empathetic love of a stranger, the love of a spouse, sibling, friend, parents. Love bleeds out and overflows resulting in respect, kindness, and forgiveness. I believe in fighting for the things I love.... Never giving up. Out of these things, I will develop a giving spirit that will leave a legacy.

From this rambling, I wrote my personal mission statement which is still under revision so that I can start living, today, with the end in mind.

I will live a life that displays respect, kindness, forgiveness, and love. In this way, I will leave a legacy.

Until next time...

Xoxoxoxoxo